Living for Your Glory - Tim Hughes Live life with no regrets.

the Lord's servant, Freda



An Ordinary Young Lady
Leading an Extraordinary Life...

D.O.B: 29/01/1989
D.O.C: 16/09/2001
Age: 21
Email: freda169@gmail.com

God's Blessings...

Attained a diploma in Int'l Biz
Obtained a Class 3 Driving License
Working as:
Executive in a MNC firm

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Restful Increase 2010
Knowing that I've the Abundance of God's Grace
A man of God
Sisters to see me through valleys

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Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds,
I will see it and remember the everlasting
covenant, between God and all living creatures
of every kind on the earth.
Genesis 9:16

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Friday, December 28, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
its the LAST day of work for 2007!! Yeah!



its finally the last working day for year 2007. The day that I have been looking forward to. However, it is also the day that time seems to be moving extremely slow. And I realised the more you look forward to knocking off, the worse you have to suffer throughout the day. haha. DO you agree people? Today, I will be knocking off eariler at 4pm. But the time seems to be longer than the usual. alamak. why is this happening to me? haha.



I will be visiting my auntie at SGH today after work today. Heard from my 5th auntie that she is undergoing chemotherapy. And somehow, she gotten another tube infection. I am not very sure how is the whole situation now, thus will visit her today. She is very depressed and discouraged, have thoughts to give up the whole treatment. Hope tonight visitation with Pastor and few church members, will change things around. of cos, with God's miracle la. Well, church members, do pray for her at home. She is the mother of Bin Hwei. Thanks.



ok, 1h 10 mins more to saying bye bye. haha. Can't wait for tomorrow. We are having our Friendship Connection Weekend. Yeah. Its a time where I think we can end the year saying thanks for being there for me throughout the whole entire year to one another. haha. And after there tomorrow, Pauline, Andrea, their aunt and I will be setting off to KL on the Royal Vip Coach by Grassland. haha. Yeah, first time into KL. Wonder how would it be like. Regina just came back, but did not share alot on her adventures le. haha. So, I shall experience it myself there. haha. The journey by coach should be ard 5hours la. Hope I will be able to sleep of the comfortable couch. haha. The coach will set off on Sunday, 0700. haha. So do miss me terribly ya? haha. We will be back by Tuesday night la. Its just a 3D2N short trip. haha. Do celebrate countdown by yourselves ok? Though I know its hard to enjoy without my presence. haha. Don't puke peeps. haha.



Ok, this shall gonna be my last post for the year. I will be back posting soon. haha. Love you all. May God bless you in the coming fabulous 2008!! Take care!! and Cya next year!!!


Last Post,

Freda


Thursday, December 27, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
i'm feeling sick...


I am not psyco or pervert when i say i m feeling sick. haha. Somehow, I felt like vomitting. bleh. goodness, though I am eating sweet to conquer the disgusting feeling, but I think i failed. yucks. I am knocking off in 30 mins times, well, hope I won't dirty the train or what. haha.


Well, time pass fairly fast today, I guess its because I tried to keep myself occupied by doing some filing for end the year, and to prepare the files ready for 2008. Wow, I have not accomplish all yet. Will continue tomorrow. haha.


Yeah!!! Tomorrow, company will shut down at 4pm sharp instead of 5.45pm. Well, Japan headquater is shutting down at 4pm, thus we will follow them. haha. I think it is really God's blessing. This company that I am working in, never had such a privilege in the past years. I mean they nvr had eariler knock off before. This time is the lst time. haha. Company paid holiday on the 2nd Jan, also started this year only. I think they got these privileges because of my presense. haha. No la. Its because God's blessing for me overflows to my company. haha. AMen!! Waiting to knock off tommorrow at 4pm and all the way to 3th Jan then I start work. Yeah!!


ok, I shall get ready to knock off. Rushing off for Worship Rehearsal later. Sing sing sing. haha


Singer,

Freda


Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
Its 26 December!!


Its one day after Christmas! Wow, I had a very wonderful Christmas yesterday. At least, with my group of true friends and family. Wow. I had a spread of festive food last evening. The food were just extremely tasty. haha. Thanks to YOU GUYS!! Haha. All I want for Christmas is you ( a pair of white shoes ). haha. Its something that meet my needs. haha. Though it doesnt cost much, and you must be wondering, Freda have already started working and earned a salary above her peers, why she cant even get herself a pair of shoes that cost thisssssssssss much? Well, every individual has their own story to tell. haha. I am not any special. I have lots of committments & lots of unexpected expenses that comes my way. haha. So, it is really impossible to get myself a pair of shoes as beautiful as my gift. I really thank these 2 ladies cum sisters in my life. haha. You know who you are. Thanks alot. Actions just speaks so much than words. haha. That's Christmas 2007. haha. I loved this special day. A day of memories. haha.

Last Monday, I attended my Cousin's wedding Dinner at Somerset. Oh, the food was just average. And almost all of my adult cousins are discussing on their Wedding Day. Goodness, Perisa and I were so bored. Because this headache is still far away from us. But I know, I will have few more ang paos coming my way in these years to come. haha. Of cos, there will also be more wedding dinners coming their way. BOMBS BOMBS RUN!! ahah. Joking. But, I am more confident that I will not have wedding Dinners ( 10 Course Dinner ) for my Wedding Day. As I really find it meaningless. Its just about food. But shouldn't there be more interactions on the couple than the food itself? Well, I want something much more meaningful than food, I don't think having many tables are grand either, its just a waste of money, because you are prone to invite people whom you don't even know. haha. Anyway, ultimately, its an issue between YOU & ME. Right? haha.

As I said many times, its really getting exciting the next few years as we mature into adulthood. haha. Though I am already 93 but I am still young at heart!! haha. Joking la. So, have you through the type of life you want to lead? of cos according to God's own plan. haha.

Btw, HCG 02, its time to start planning for year 2008. hhaa. Jordan. Sylvia, Regina, Candy, Anna, Karen, Perisa, Bin Hwei, Joshua, Gui Ming, Wei Siang!! Its time to get excited in what you wanna achieve ok? I will come to meet you soon. Get ready. haha.

Excited,

Freda



Monday, December 24, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
Its Christmas EVE!!!

Wow, its Christmas Eve already!! Haha. But here am I working FULL DAY !!! What is this.!?! Both my colleagues in the same dept as me are already on Holiday. I am the only Sales Assistant left in the Office. Thus, its is very natural that those Sales Engineers will look for me if any of their shipment is in trouble. haha. In the end, I was helping my colleague to clear some of their work. haha. But well, indeed I did learn something on my own today. At least I felt that I really worked today. haha. Now, I am counting down to knocking off!! which is one more hour to go.

Pauline only went for Party today from 9-12pm. Wow, nice of them. Party = FOOD + DRINKS + MIND SWITCHED OFF. haha. This is my equation. haha. People, don't faint haha. I am just trying to create a lame joke. hahahahahahahahahahahahahhaahahhahaahhahah. I guess Pauline is quite busy unpacking her new furnitures now, at this very moment. If you are surprise how would I know, its because she just msged me. haha. Well, starting off a new year with some new furnitures is not a bad idea ya? haha. Well, I will be rushing off to my home for a change straight after work to attend my cousin's wedding dinner at Somerset with my parents tonight. Em, I dont expect fantastic food la. As I dislike 10 course Dinner. They are food that are expensive but not tasty. Food that is tasteless and can't fill the stomach. haha. ok. I shall stop complaining. I will just make sure that my wedding won't be one that is 10 COURSE DINNER!! haha. What about lunch reception? Buffet? Short , sweet , simple? haha. My ideal one. haha. STOP BOASTING FREDA!! hahaha.

Pardon me peeps. I think I am really bored in waiting for time to pass. hahah. Wahahaha. Siao Ting Dong. Yeah, My daughter is back. I mean, REGINA IS BACK. ahahah. Where is my pressie??? haha. FOOD?? hha. Sorry, I am really a Pig man. EAT EAT EAT!! haha. Joking la. I don't expect presents la. Just make sure you are back safe and sound. That will be the best gift. hhaa.

I missed Sylvia. haha. Sylvia Lim Marta!!! Where are you!!! Come back to Singapore! Someone is missing you terribly!! haha. Its me la. hehe. (*laugh if you know what I meant). hahahaha. Joking. Don't kill me Sylvia. Murder is a crime and sin. hahah. I am not worth to cause you to sin. haha

Ok, enough of my rubbish. last sat service was awesome. Many people came, but not many believed. But well, at least I believe the performances did not disappoint anyone. Good job to all involved. Thanks for putting in your Talent, Time, Energy, Passion to put up this show for our Grand HOST, JESUS!! I believed He is very pleased. However, this is just the beginning. There is more work to be done. So, jia you people!!! We are in this together! AMen?

Ok, shall end here, abit too long, however, thanks for reading. haha.

Counting down 1 day to Christmas,

Freda



Friday, December 21, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
CHRISTMAS!!! Jingle Bells.. all the ways...



Wow, it has been a long time since I last blogged at home. haha. I usually blogged at my office during my office time. haha. not a good thing to announce. haha. Shhhshshh. Well, Christmas is really near, and you know what? HLC is celebrating Christmas Big Day 2007 tomorrow!!! haha.


Time really flies and we are nearing the end of 2007. We have only 10 days left to complete wat is not accomplished for this year. I am really excited and looking forward to 2008, I went through many ups and downs in 2007. I would say its a year of struggles and tears. But, it is also a year where I received lots of healing and a year that I became stronger inside out. haha. I am really waiting to start anew and afresh in the coming year. hahaha


But before counting down to that 10 days, we should countdown for Christmas!!! haha. 4 more days to Jesus's Birthday. ahaha.
Thank You Jesus for coming to the world to die for all man sins. This is the greatest gift that I have received in my whole entire life, which is the forgiveness of sins. I admit that I am someone who guilt easily, and STUPID S A TAN is always using this to haunt me in my dreams. GTHL!!! haha. Thus, I would like to share the Gospel to as many unsaved friends as possible. haha. I am glad that my best friend Isabel have promised to come upon my invitation!! Thanks Bel. haha. Love you so much. haha. Looking forward to the activities and performance tomorrow. haha


I went shopping recently and realised that the crowds are getting more and more packed. My goodness, the price of all things are going up, but the more it increases, the more people are buying stuff!!! So, Singaporeans are actually rich people. haha. So more presents for Christmas please. hahaa. But well, I am sorry guys. I am not getting any gifts or presents for you guys, as my budget is tight. haha. But well, I wish you a blessed Christmas. May your Christmas be one that is full of happiness and love. haha.


Well, guys, work hard for Salvation. Your life will be blessed according to what you sow. haha. God bless my friends!!!


Love,

Freda


Monday, December 17, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
I'm Not Scrooge...I'm Just Broke


I found this story over the net, I just felt somehow it speaks of the heartfelt feelings of some people around us. Humble gifts means alot. still...


It's said that you can never have too many friends, but Christmas was just a week away and I had five people left to shop for on my Christmas list and only three dollars to my name. How do you tell your mother, brother and three friends that you can only spend sixty cents on each of them?

"Let's set a price limit on our gifts this year," I suggested to my best friend, Joanie.
"That's a good idea," Joanie agreed. "How about nothing over five dollars?"
"How about nothing over sixty cents?" I felt like the biggest cheapskate in the world.
"I guess this is where I'm supposed to say it's not the gift, it's the thought that counts," Joanie smiled. "But don't blame me if all you get is a stick of gum!"
It is almost impossible to buy anything for under sixty cents, so it was really going to have to be very small gifts with very big thoughts. I'd never spent so much time or effort trying to come up with the right gift for the right person.
Finally, Christmas day arrived, and I was worried how people would feel about my "cheap" gifts.


I gave my mother a scented candle with a note that said, "You are the brightest light in my life." She almost cried when she read the note.
I gave my brother a wooden ruler. On the back of it I'd painted, "No brother in the world could measure up to you." He gave me a bag of sugar and had written on it, "You're sweet." He'd never said anything like that to me before.
For Joanie, I painted an old pair of shoes gold and stuck dried flowers in them with a note that said, "No one could ever fill your shoes." She gave me a feather and a Band-Aid. She said I always tickled her funny bone and made her laugh until her sides ached.
To my other two friends, I gave one a paper fan and wrote on it, "I'm your biggest fan." To the other, I gave a calculator that cost one dollar and I painted a message on the back, "You can always count on me." They gave me a rusty horseshoe for luck and a bundle of sticks tied with a red ribbon because "friends stick together."


I don't remember all the other gifts that I got from people last Christmas, but I remember every one of the "cheap" gifts.
My brother thinks I'm sweet. My mother knows she is the most important person in my life. Joanie thinks I'm funny and I make her laugh, which is important because her dad moved away last year and she misses him and is sad sometimes.


I was worried I wouldn't have enough money for Christmas gifts, but I gave gifts to five people and still had twenty cents left over. We all still talk about our "cheap" gifts and how much fun it was to come up with a gift that cost pennies but told someone how we really felt about them. On my bookshelf, I still have a bag of sugar, a feather, a horseshoe and a bundle of sticks...and they are priceless.




Humbled,

Freda



Friday, December 14, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
Finally Weekend!! Yeah!!



Its finally weekend, haha. After a week of hard work in office (as if) haha, finally I can sleep longer during the weekends and meet some young peeps in church. hahaa. For your info, I am meeting aunties and uncles every monday - friday. I am afraid if I see them any longer, I would become 1 man. haha. Don laugh. hahahahahh. Well, I can't wait to see Sharon Au on this Sunday's Stars' Awards. haha. A time of relaxation. hahah.


Weekend is a time for MINISTRY!! Wow. haha. Sat will be both exciting and tiring day for me. Or I should say for all Ministry members. I hope to see more new faces each week, because thats the sign that our church is moving yeah? We really need to get into business and multiply cell groups, we can't forever stay at 2 cell groups ya? haha. People go go go!!


I read Regina's post today, it was a very inspiring story, but I felt that we should praise God more. It gave me a different perspective towards service. haha. I think all should read about it. haha.


Really getting excited about life. Woah....... Where God leads God provides. I don not know what happiness can man brings to me. But, I believe if I ask happiness from God, He will give me what's best for me. I don't ask for much, I just want God's plan in me to fulfill as I know He is the best Father that one can ever have. haha.


Cya tml. God bless.


Lovingly,
Freda


Thursday, December 13, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
Good Hair? Bad Hair? Day...



What's up with my Title? haha. Good hair day or bad hair day? haha. I am actually just trying to create some mystery here la. hahaha. I will going for a hair cut later after work. At Sammi's place. haha. The very real reason why I go there is because it cost only $7, and the workmanship is acceptable. SO, why not? haha. This time round, I will cut my hair real short. haha. Fell like having a extreme makeover in my outer appeareance. How about a boy's hairstyle? hahah. Well, don't be shock. I make sure you will say WA!!!! when you see me. So, to be continued. hahah.



The price of almost all things are going up. Right up from the increase of GST to food to merchandise and finally transport. Cabs' initially start off was only $2.40, but this year, it rose up to $2.50. And within the same year, it rise steeply to $2.80. ANd of cos not only that. The extra charges during peak period is no longer simply adding $2, but 35% of the meter reading. Goodness. Isn't it scary. People who wants to take cab these really got to think twice. haha. Personally, I felt, one thing good that the prices of all things went up, shows that Singapore's economy is getting better. haha. BUT.. one very realistic question is that, why isn't our pay increasing? Everything else rises, but definitely not the PAY! Why? Haiz. I just felt that the quality of life is improving, but how many people can live up to that standard of living?


I just felt its time to start to be alittle skimpy, and its important to start saving now. Who knows what else can happen in the next few years, when all of us are still striving to live this life now. We should be positive ya? haha.


Anyway, I did some calculations just now. I just cannot wait to see the year 2010 arriving, that is when I turn 21. That will be the day I tell myself, Freda, you are debt free!!! hahaa. Random again. haha. Just for your info, I am paying off some instalments that will due in 2 yrs time. haha. Tough time, yet satisfying. :)

ok, shall end here. cya.


Hair free day,

Freda


Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
GOSH...



Gosh, I am really really really excited, Excited excited. Haha. Yesterday cell was good, I believe my sermon have made an impact in someone's life. haha. But well, Praise & Worship is still not as good. Need lots of practices and chemistry. haha. Attendance was not as good too. We only have 7 ppl in total. It is suppose to be an attendance of 11, if all came. Apparently not.

Anyway, Praise God for those who came. It is all about the willingness to sacrifice something which you love in order that you gain something powerful. Well, I believe those who came benefitted from it. As for those who did not, I hope you find a reason in which why should you come. I can easily become a nag, or kept messenging to ask ppl to come come come. But, one thing for sure is that, I am not begging you guys to come.

FOr Ppl in HCG 02, one more reminder for you guys, I want to see a reply to all messages that I had sent, it can be a simply yes or no. Or inform you later. But, I DEFINITELY WANT to see a reply, I feel that is courtesy. For those of you who have not make this a habit, I feel its time to do so.


Well, 12 More days to CHRISTMAS!! Yeah. Its another time of giving thanks and wishing Jesus, "HAPPY BIRTHDAY"!!! Haha. Recently I read an email regarding a letter from Jesus. Summary of the content is saying that most of us have forgotten the real reason why we are celebrating Christmas. Is it only a time of gifts and holidays? Or a time to catch up or fellowship? No. It is all about Jesus, who came to the world to die for our sins.


Since the day I became a Christian, I can proudly say, I celebrate it with a good cause. And it is to share the Gospel with the non-belivers. But what about you? Have you ever thought which are the years you remembered that its Jesus's Birthday, rather than just celebrating blindly? Think about the reason you celebrate from now on. haha. SOund so serious. haha.


Lastly, Potluck is on next Tuesday, HCG 02 ppl, please remember to msg me the food item that you will be bringing that day. Of cos, not forgetting a gift which valued $5 for gifts exchange. haha. Cya. :)

Looking Forward to Potluck,

Freda


Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
BUSY...



I think I am really getting tight up and busier. haha. So much printing to do, so many ppl to meet, so many needs to meet, so many goals to achieve, so many many many things. Though I am 18, but somehow I am not tight up with tests, exams, or assignments. haha. But if there is a chance, I would rather deal with assignments than people. Because, it is always easier to deal with non living things. haha. No offence ppl. Ppl are always changing. This moment, they are very happy, next moment that they ignore you. haha. Would you like to deal with such ppl? But, I am still interested to understand the behavior of each individual. haha. ok, why am I saying all these. haha.


Last week service was fantastic. haha. The sermon touches many ppl, I believe. haha. Attendance of 20!!! We are not far away from 30 la. haha. Work hard for salvation ppl. At least, I know one more of my cousin is saved. haha. More save, more save. haha. Getting excited on people getting save man, dun mind exchanging for lesser sleep. haha.


Cell Group Tonight!!! haha. Tonight, Min Hui is joining us. haha. First time. Outreaching her is not easy because of my aunties. There are all very devoted buddhists. And my grandparents are very unhappy of me being a Christian. And the thing is that she is staying with them! haha. but I took the risk. I dun mind being blamed by them, because I strongly believe that this is the best gift that can be given to her. She is only 14, but led an very indifferent life from the rest. hhaha. So, I hope she can enjoy life better the moment she received Christ. haha. AMEN!!!


This wek is the 2nd week od Dec. We are really getting closer to 2008, work hard ppl. haha.


Excited to see my cell members tonight. haha. Ok, I shall end here. Cya ppl.


Excited,

Freda


Friday, December 07, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
It bled again...



The influenza that I am having in Oct and Nov was quite bad. I remembered last month I blogged on nose bleeding. This time round I am still blogging on nose bleeding. I am having sore throat these few days, then followed by flu. I kept blowing my nose so many times and hard that I think the vessels ruptures. That is true man. I went do some research on what causes nose bleed. Please see below.


What is a nose bleed?


The nose has a hard, bony part and a soft part. A nose bleed occurs when one or more of the delicate blood vessels at the outer end of the soft part ruptures.


Common causes of nose bleeds


- Blowing, picking or rubbing the nose and sneezing too frequently. Injury to the
nose eg. a hard knock.
- Breathing very dry air.
- Nasal or sinus infection that make the nasal mucous membrane more fragile.
- Dilated blood vessels (eg. in alcoholics) in the nose, which is more prone to bleeding.
- Certain drugs (eg. anticoagulants, aspirin) which make cause spontaneous bleeding.


What you can do


- Sit down and lean forward.
- Pinch the lower part of the nostrils just below the bony part for 10 minutes while breathing through the mouth.
- Release the nostrils slowly. If the bleeding continues, repeat the procedure.
- After the bleeding has stopped, do not touch or blow the nose for about four hours.
- Do not pack the affected nostril with gauze or cotton.
- Go to the A&E Department of the nearest hospital if the nose bleed cannot be stopped after 20 minutes.
- Consult a doctor if the nose bleed recurs frequently, especially if you have symptoms such as ear block or small swellings at the neck.


Ok. done with my research. haha. Pauline, Don't worry, my nose bleed is not caused by my medication. Most likely caused by blowing of nose. Cos, it always starts to bleed after I blow my nose. haha.


Ok, shall not talk abt bleeding again, I bled yesterday and today!!!! Bloody. Losing blood man. Needs some pig liver. haha. Joking. I won't eat that, over my dead body. haha.


I will be super duper busy from the time I knock off today to tomorro 2359. Well, I will be meeting my secondary school friends after work today!! I am excited about it as we have not met since we left SJC. haha. And tomorrow, I need to reach church by 6.30 to do some printing, then meet Pastor at 8.15am , then meeting, then discipleship x3, then service, announcement, dinner, fellowship. Wow. BUSY rite? Thus, I need to take a good rest tonight as I have not recovered, if not you shall hear croaking singing tomorrow. haha. Joking. I will sing my best la. No worries. STILL AS BEAUTIFUL AS B4. haha :)


Though I am busy, but statisfying. Sunday will be a super REST day for me. DUN CALL ME PPL!!! Haha. Need to sleep sleep sleep. Will wake up when the time is right. haha. Siao.


The sky is still as dark as the day before. and waiting to knock off 1hr later. hhaa. I want shopping!!! Random. haha.


In the midst of Recovering,

Freda


Wednesday, December 05, 2007
Enjoying Life with YOU is all I ask for...
Drowsy...


I wonder what's wrong with me. Have been feeling very sleepy and tired these days when I woke up from my bed. Gosh. Even to the extent that I slept during my lunch hour. Haha. I have been taking anti itch tablets these few nights, and I a feeling that I took the wrong dosage and thus, resulting to my sleepiness. haha.


Well, I have not been feeling well these days, down with sore throat and yet still eating junk food. hahaha. Don't scold me!! I think I really don't have the discipline towards the temptation of food. ahah. As you can see, I am walking towards the sinking side of the weighing scale. Haha. Well, next year resolution is to eat healthily. ahha. WHO will believe me? God. hahah.


Another 20 mins left to knocking off yea!!! But, the sky is dark over at my side. It is still raining since morning. Goodness. I forgotten to bring my umbrella again. ahaha. But, I guess it should be drizzles later on.


Recently, very very very very free at work, I really felt that I am being paid to waste my time in the office. Its really not constructive at all. Alamak. Surfing net all day and doing admin stuff, DURING office hours. Thats not right, but... Haiz. You won't understand. haha. Still, I thank God for the people here that are really nice to me. haha. I know I am blogging rubbish. I will blog something more constructive tomorrow. haha. Cya.


Getting ready for Worship Rehearsal at 7.30pm tonight. Missed listening to frogs croaking to finish a song? You shall come and enjoy the beautifully croaking sound from me. haha.


Croak Croak,

Freda